Why would a spouse cheat if the marriage is good?

For exciting and intensely satisfying sex that is deprived or denied or not understood of each other's needs - quick judgments " My husband watches porn " If it's not porn - it's his drinking - he spends more time with his friends- he doesn't share the work around the house - he doesn't talk - doesn't respect my family - not working enough - Headaches - Fibromyalgia- TMJ - size - ED and the list grows from a page to a size of 2 PDR's.

Millions of excuses - Reasons - constant fighting - arguments- And always something wrong with the other- no self reflection -

Nothing perfect - It's not acceptable if it's not perfect - but only the other one !

One day, I happened to walk past where my crush was with friends. Then all of a sudden they start laughing, and someone maybe him, goes "freaking (my name) with her freaking hair!" Can anyone offer insights into this? We're in middle school.

My own imperfections is not the reason - you see …. !

Point being - Marriage seems to be good to others - it's not - it has no passion in it - and two people come to live together as room mates and share their expense - to keep their secret from others the lips get sealed - of having separate beds and separate accounts

so begins the first step heading towards separation and divorce which becomes the battle ground- my TV - my sofa - my bed - my - my - my ……..

Why do some people never get to on a date even though they wanted to? Are they just too ugly and weird for everybody?

Grass looks green elsewhere - begins the cheating - And to get what - ? SEX.